The Coffee Cup

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So here’s it. We hang out with our friends every Wednesday at this cofee shop. and our parents are usually with us. SO the dude started off with simple flirts like, “hi, how are you” and stuff. . . . so I thought it’s normal but now he’s freaking the hell out of me. He once or twice told me to stay near the counter cuz he likes watching me! And he’s always like, ur beautiful, ur cute, and all I do is smile and thank him. THE PROBLEM IS yesterday, before my parents and friends come, he was like, I wanna buy you a gift but don’t tell your dad cuz he’ll get mad at me. And that dude is like 25 or something. . . . he speaks a bit poor English but that’s not my point. I hate the guy and I’m confused, if he gets me any sort of gifts, my dad will freak out and might involve the police too! It could get serious so I need serious answers only! I appreciate ur time, thanks in advance!

P. S. I’m not allowed to date till reaching a certain age. and I’m not allowed to kiss either. . . . please stay in the topic!

They always give me there business cards and leave a 5 in the tip cup. What is a nice way to say no.

My ex-boyfriend and I broke up a year ago. It was an extremely messy dissolution. We were rejected each other countless times, even if I tried harder to become a peace maker and put everything right. He did not want to hear it. The original cut was delivered by myself. It was completely absurd, because we both cared for varandra.Sedan then, we seemed to stop fred.Han came back to town after Christmas. During this time, text / us a few times and when I was cordial, he flirted and teased me very openly. I saw him too and he greeted me with a hug, then when I left he text / me to talk. He did not say anything when I left, but he chose to. During this conversation, he proposed to and we get coffee sometime, “if I wanted.” I have not openly flirt back, but simply absorbed his teasing / flirting and responded graciously (ler, hahaha s) and said I would like to have coffee, too. During the same conversation we had in SMS after I left to see him ( This was on Monday), he did not answer a simple harmless text halfway into our conversation. I dislike my answer later in the evening and still no response from him. I asked a couple of days later on if he got the text. He said he did not, but his response to me at that time was short, clipped, which he did not want to talk. The convo was only a few texts. It was a complete turn around from our other convos. Since then I have not heard from honom.Jag wished him a happy birthday on something on Saturday. No response. I added him on Facebook yesterday, and he accepted. I went to check out his profile, to find I was no longer his friend! He accepted me for a short time, maybe crawl?, Then I assume! I think it’s really bizarre. He is something new on Facebook. Maybe he did not know I could tell that they accepted me at any point? Well I sent him a message on it, just asked what it was about. I was not accusing or harsh in any way. Very casual. And he has not responded. I know it only been one day, but I know he was on Facebook. Why do I get treated this way all of a sudden? He continues to accept people on their Facebook, which goes to our school, which he did not even know that well, especially compared with how well he knows me. He added also my best friend, whom he never talked to. She removed him, and then he loved her again. What the hell? I feel maybe he still has feelings for me, but he wants to push me away? If I do not text him, I can almost count on not to hear from honom.Om he is not interested in a relationship, then he should not have any problems with me. I have not been flirty or burdensome. So what’s up guys?! Is he crazy, or am I missing something?! Anyway, I am puzzled how he could change suddenly like this, when I did nothing to provoke it. Anyone see something I do not? Or have any suggestions? My question is, what the hell is he trying to do?!

My friend and I turned around an idea for a coffee place we wanted to start called “Zombie Espresso” We think you connect with a local baker for Bear claws that look like exposed brains. . suckers that look like severed fingers. . goin up there in a basement space with no windows. . What do you think?